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Graduation happened, and Gossip Girl sent out a text saying labeling all the main characters, and promising more juice later. Blair, Serena, Chuck and Nate hatch a plot to find out who Gossip Girl is and figure out it's Jonathon (Eric's boyfriend), but then discover he actually just hacked onto her account. At a party that night Gossip Girl spills everyone's old secrets (about Dan and Ms. Carr, Jenny taking pictures in her bra and Nate rescuing her, Blair sleeping with Jack over New Years, Chuck sleeping with Vanessa, etc.) and everyone freaks out. Before that, Blair was seducing Chuck and he was about to say "I love you," but when he finds out about Jack he's furious. She then starts to cry and says she loves him, and begs him to answer back, but he says he doesn't feel that way anymore, and walks away. Meanwhile people are still hatching a plot against Gossip Girl. Serena texts GG telling her to meet them at a bar, but instead of Gossip Girl, the whole senior class shows up. A blast then goes out saying that they're what make her up and help her, and that she's going to follow them throughout college. During all this, the search for the next Queen Bee is going on. Blair realizes Jenny should be it and makes her the queen (by putting a headband with diamonds on her head.) Rufus and Lily also make up and he proposes to her for real, and she says yes. At the end of the episode, Nate and Vanessa make up and Nate decides to quit the mayor intern job and go backpacking with her. Georgina calls to Dan to let him know she got back all the money Rufus invested from Poppy, and that she'll be going to NYU also. Then it shows her asking the admissions officer if she can room with Blair Waldorf, her "best friend." Carter Baizen also comes back, telling Serena that the thing they had apparently been "looking for" in Santorini was actually in Fiji, and hands her some papers with the P.I.'s info. When he gives them to her, she says "So you know where my real father is?", which is who they had been trying to find. Last, but BEST OF ALL, Blair is walking down the sidewalk and sees Chuck, who had been in Europe earlier, outside his limo holding a bunch of gifts. He says he went to all the countries to get her favorite things (Germany for her fave chocolate, etc.) and then says he had to come back to her, and he's tired of being a coward (which is what GG labeled his as in the beginning) and that he's ready to face her. Then he holds her and he says..... 'I love you too." She immediately kisses him and then they're laughing and hugging, and she's like "No, just say it again! One more time!" And he's like, "I love you" and kisses her, "I love you," *kiss* and it's basically the cutest thing ever.
I'm sorry, I reread that and it's really confusing and doesn't make sense. I'm just so pumped about the finale! Check http://www.gossipgirlblog.cwtv.com in a couple days for the full episode recap.
Graduation happened, and Gossip Girl sent out a text saying labeling all the main characters, and promising more juice later. Blair, Serena, Chuck and Nate hatch a plot to find out who Gossip Girl is and figure out it's Jonathon (Eric's boyfriend), but then discover he actually just hacked onto her account. At a party that night Gossip Girl spills everyone's old secrets (about Dan and Ms. Carr, Jenny taking pictures in her bra and Nate rescuing her, Blair sleeping with Jack over New Years, Chuck sleeping with Vanessa, etc.) and everyone freaks out. Before that, Blair was seducing Chuck and he was about to say "I love you," but when he finds out about Jack he's furious. She then starts to cry and says she loves him, and begs him to answer back, but he says he doesn't feel that way anymore, and walks away. Meanwhile people are still hatching a plot against Gossip Girl. Serena texts GG telling her to meet them at a bar, but instead of Gossip Girl, the whole senior class shows up. A blast then goes out saying that they're what make her up and help her, and that she's going to follow them throughout college. During all this, the search for the next Queen Bee is going on. Blair realizes Jenny should be it and makes her the queen (by putting a headband with diamonds on her head.) Rufus and Lily also make up and he proposes to her for real, and she says yes. At the end of the episode, Nate and Vanessa make up and Nate decides to quit the mayor intern job and go backpacking with her. Georgina calls to Dan to let him know she got back all the money Rufus invested from Poppy, and that she'll be going to NYU also. Then it shows her asking the admissions officer if she can room with Blair Waldorf, her "best friend." Carter Baizen also comes back, telling Serena that the thing they had apparently been "looking for" in Santorini was actually in Fiji, and hands her some papers with the P.I.'s info. When he gives them to her, she says "So you know where my real father is?", which is who they had been trying to find. Last, but BEST OF ALL, Blair is walking down the sidewalk and sees Chuck, who had been in Europe earlier, outside his limo holding a bunch of gifts. He says he went to all the countries to get her favorite things (Germany for her fave chocolate, etc.) and then says he had to come back to her, and he's tired of being a coward (which is what GG labeled his as in the beginning) and that he's ready to face her. Then he holds her and he says..... 'I love you too." She immediately kisses him and then they're laughing and hugging, and she's like "No, just say it again! One more time!" And he's like, "I love you" and kisses her, "I love you," *kiss* and it's basically the cutest thing ever.
I'm sorry, I reread that and it's really confusing and doesn't make sense. I'm just so pumped about the finale! Check http://www.gossipgirlblog.cwtv.com in a couple days for the full episode recap.
Homeless girl steals clothes?
Heather .
My little brother(19) lives with me and brought over a girl(18) last night to hang out with. The girl was homeless, but I didn't say anything and just let them hang out. My brother cooked her food, watched movies with her, hung out etc... and she ended up falling asleep here. I was in my room studying today and noticed one of my shirts in her backpack. I looked more and ended up finding 5 of my shirts in there so I took them out. I ended up telling them both they had to leave bc my bf's parents were coming over soon (which is true). The girl went through her backpack and noticed I had taken my shirts back and turned bright red. She didn't say anything about it and I didn't say anything to her. For some reason I feel really bad about taking the shirts back and making them leave. I have tons of shirts and would have given her some clothes if she just would have asked. I just don't want people to steal from me. What would you have done in this situation (said something, let her keep the shirts, etc...) My brother should be back around 10 pm tonight and might bring her. What should I do??
yeah I think my boyfriend and I are going to do that if she comes back tonight. I know people are embarrassed about asking for stuff like that so I understand why she did it. People get desperate and feel like they have no other choice, but at the same time I don't want to be stolen from.
She turned red out of embarrassment, which led me to believe that she probably felt bad. She doesn't seem like a bad person, in fact when she noticed she tried to offer me a t-shirt of hers to give to my boyfriend, but I told her she could keep it. My boyfriend is worried if we let her back in the house she will steal more, and I wouldn't want her to take any of his stuff. Should we let her back and try and talk to her and keep a close eye on her or do you think she would just steal again?
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First, you need to figure out what your boundaries are going to be with this girl. How often can she stay overnight? Is she allowed to stay in the place alone or enter rooms (other than the bathroom) alone? Not inviting her other friends over?
Then I would talk with her about it, I might not even let your brother in on it. While she could be a kleptomaniac she could also simply have done something in a rash decision. If this was out of character for her, she is going to be terrified of seeing you face to face again so the best approach is to actually deal with the awkwardness head on so everyone knows what to expect. In a casual way (maybe sitting on the coach or running into each other in the hallway) just say "hey, we need to talk about what happened yesterday". If you want to give her the benefit of the doubt you may want to say something like "We all do things that we know are wrong and make mistakes" if she apologizes then accept it and tell her that this one time all will be forgotten.
Tell her that everyone needs help from others at times and you would like to be able to help her when you are in a position to do so but she needs to tell you of her needs rather than just take. Maybe suggest things she might need like a ride to a job interview, feminine products, some clean clothes, or even just to feel pretty for the day. Let her know that if she tells you of these things you will try to help her get them. But that just taking without asking is not acceptable and makes it hard for you to trust her. Let her know that you WANT to trust her and then tell her what she needs to do for that to happen. She needs to not take without asking. Maybe for awhile she needs to stay out of certain rooms. Whatever you need to build that trust again. Try to keep the conversation to no more than 5-10 minutes. When its over, join the others and then offer everyone ice-cream or something to return things to normal.
It is your decision if your brother should be brought into this. If you need his help to make sure she stays in designated areas then bring him into the conversation AFTER you talked to her alone. Tell her in advance how much information you plan on giving your brother.
I'm giving this advice based on the assumption you believe this is an unusual act for her, want to forgive her, and are okay with her coming back into the house. Only you can determine these things and decide what boundaries you need.
First, you need to figure out what your boundaries are going to be with this girl. How often can she stay overnight? Is she allowed to stay in the place alone or enter rooms (other than the bathroom) alone? Not inviting her other friends over?
Then I would talk with her about it, I might not even let your brother in on it. While she could be a kleptomaniac she could also simply have done something in a rash decision. If this was out of character for her, she is going to be terrified of seeing you face to face again so the best approach is to actually deal with the awkwardness head on so everyone knows what to expect. In a casual way (maybe sitting on the coach or running into each other in the hallway) just say "hey, we need to talk about what happened yesterday". If you want to give her the benefit of the doubt you may want to say something like "We all do things that we know are wrong and make mistakes" if she apologizes then accept it and tell her that this one time all will be forgotten.
Tell her that everyone needs help from others at times and you would like to be able to help her when you are in a position to do so but she needs to tell you of her needs rather than just take. Maybe suggest things she might need like a ride to a job interview, feminine products, some clean clothes, or even just to feel pretty for the day. Let her know that if she tells you of these things you will try to help her get them. But that just taking without asking is not acceptable and makes it hard for you to trust her. Let her know that you WANT to trust her and then tell her what she needs to do for that to happen. She needs to not take without asking. Maybe for awhile she needs to stay out of certain rooms. Whatever you need to build that trust again. Try to keep the conversation to no more than 5-10 minutes. When its over, join the others and then offer everyone ice-cream or something to return things to normal.
It is your decision if your brother should be brought into this. If you need his help to make sure she stays in designated areas then bring him into the conversation AFTER you talked to her alone. Tell her in advance how much information you plan on giving your brother.
I'm giving this advice based on the assumption you believe this is an unusual act for her, want to forgive her, and are okay with her coming back into the house. Only you can determine these things and decide what boundaries you need.
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