Normal to feel happy yet kind of bored?




Paul G


Im 26 and recently bought a house with my girlfriend of 3 years, kind of "settled down" if you will into a routine and our jobs. Lately though I've been getting kind of bored. When I was 19 I left home and tried to cross Canada on my bicycle. I ended up living in Calgary for 3 years, where I bought a motorcycle, toured the rockies, and went to Australia for 3 months on a backpacking trip. I also moved around Europe a lot as a kid as my father works in foreign affairs. I guess these things have made me more of a pleasure seeker if you will than the average person. I've always enjoyed that "knots in your stomach" feeling you get before you set out on a trip, ask a girl out, or ride a bike fast, and I'm not getting any of those feelings anymore in everyday life. I have not been able to have a motorcycle for a while because of all the bills that I have to pay now, and even though I plan on getting one next summer, money is tighter so my choice of hobbies are limited. I guess this is reality, and I am content with my life and my girlfriend, I can't help feeling restless, as if one side of myself is fulfilled but another isn't.


Answer
Growing requires challenge. You might consider pushing out the boundaries of your relationship. That's always challenging.




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